“This is NOT where I expected to be in life!”
I can’t tell you how many people I’ve heard that from over the years. People seem to experience real grief over what “could have” and “should have” been. If you are one of those people, you are certainly NOT alone. Identify the exact story you tell yourself about where you are supposed to be right now.
It’s all a great big story because none of it is real except inside your head. Are you supposed to be married with kids? Are you supposed to be a successful entrepreneur at age 19 like Mark Zuckerberg of Facebook fame?
Ask yourself… “Who says that what you think you want is where you are ACTUALLY supposed to be?”
If you listen to the answer inside your head… Do you hear yourself say, “Me… I say that!”
Ask yourself, “What would I have if that were me?”
Would you have money? Fame? Happiness?
People delude themselves into the “if only” conversations… “If only I had more money, I’d be happy. If only I had children, I’d be happy. If only I were married to the RIGHT person, I’d be happy.”
Let me let you in on a little secret… WHEREVER YOU GO, THERE YOU ARE!
If you’re unhappy now, you would be unhappy regardless of your circumstances. How many people have kids and are unhappy? How many people have great jobs and are unhappy? How many people have wonderful partners and are unhappy?
I know this for a fact because I used to say all of those things, while I had all of those things. The unhappiness was inside of me. It lived inside of me and followed me around… wherever I went… but not anymore.
I encourage you to get to the place where you KNOW without a shadow of a doubt that THIS IS WHERE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE IN LIFE! Why? Because it is where you are! It is your jumping-off point to much greater things to come!
I was able to get to the place of contentment, happiness, and inner peace through years of hard emotional work. You can shortcut what took me years to achieve to just a few hours by working with a trained NLP practitioner and Hypnotherapist like me.
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