Many people go through life feeling a vague sense of unhappiness or dissatisfaction, even when things seem okay on the surface. They may have a stable job, good relationships, and a comfortable home, yet they still feel like something is missing, or that life isn’t going the way they truly want. The feeling is frustrating because it’s hard to pinpoint exactly why things feel off. Without clarity, many people end up feeling stuck, repeating the same routines, and wondering why they aren’t happier.

In my hypnotherapy and NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) coaching sessions, I help clients uncover the real reasons behind their dissatisfaction. Often, the root cause of unhappiness isn’t what people expect. It’s usually buried deep within the subconscious mind, a part of the mind that holds many of our past experiences, beliefs, and emotions. While we may not always be aware of what’s stored in the subconscious, these hidden thoughts have a huge impact on our daily lives. They shape how we see ourselves, what we think is possible, and what we believe we deserve.

For example, someone might consciously say they want a successful career and fulfilling relationships. But if, at a subconscious level, they hold a belief that they aren’t good enough or don’t deserve success, they will subconsciously sabotage opportunities. The result is that they end up feeling unhappy and wondering why their life isn’t going as planned.

Through hypnotherapy, we can access the subconscious mind and bring these underlying beliefs to the surface. Hypnotherapy is a powerful tool for this work because it allows you to reach a deeply relaxed state where your mind becomes open and receptive. In this relaxed state, you can begin to explore the root causes of your unhappiness without judgment or fear. Often, clients experience “aha” moments during sessions, where they finally understand what’s been holding them back.

In NLP coaching, we go further by focusing on how your thoughts, language, and actions are connected. NLP techniques allow you to recognize patterns in how you speak to yourself and how you respond to situations. For example, if you have a habit of focusing on what’s wrong rather than what’s right, NLP coaching can help you reframe your perspective. By changing the way you think and talk to yourself, you begin to shift your mindset toward one that supports your goals and desires.

One of the most transformative parts of this work is that once you understand why you’ve been feeling unhappy, you also intuitively start to know how to resolve your inner conflicts. When you shine a light on your subconscious beliefs, they lose their power over you. You begin to see that you don’t have to be held back by old stories, fears, or limiting beliefs. This awareness creates a path toward positive change. You can start to rewrite the old, unhelpful patterns that have kept you feeling stuck, replacing them with new beliefs that support the life you want to create.

If you’re ready to break free from the patterns holding you back and discover the real reason your life isn’t going as you want, I’m here to help. Through hypnotherapy and NLP coaching, we can work together to uncover and resolve your inner conflicts, empowering you to move forward with clarity and confidence. Your life can be everything you desire, and it’s never too late to start. Reach out if you’re ready to take the first step toward the life you’ve always wanted.

Jayne Goldman, MBA, C.Ht., Founder and Principal of Best Life Hypnotherapy in Los

Angeles, is a Certified Hypnotherapist and NLP Master NLP Practitioner and Coach

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