I once worked with a woman who had no father present in her life growing up and her mother was bi-polar and completely incapable of caring for her. 

This woman came to me because she didn’t trust her own judgment. She chose men who were bad for her. She was worried that she was going to have mental health issues like her mom… and she often questioned her sanity.

In spite of all of this, this woman in her late 30’s was a very successful business woman. She made excellent money, owned her own home and was a great mother to her son. 

When we examined her life, she saw this innocent 5-year-old girl that she was, having to be the parent and contend with the erratic behaviors of her mother. She was often alone and had no guidance about life. Everything she learned was outside of her home. 

The problem was… by the time she was 7 years old, the filter through which she viewed the world was pretty much formed. Her Model of the World was that she was not only NOT important, but effectively worthless. This was the only interpretation of life a 5-year-old could come up with when her mother neglected her and treated her badly. It’s completely understandable. 

As an adult, she was well aware that her mother suffered from mental illness, yet… that never changed the fact that the little girl inside of her still thought she was worthless. That program played so many times over for so many years that it was sealed into her subconscious mind… about 95% of her total mindpower. Only 5%… her conscious mind.. knew her own worth! 

Once she understood at the deepest part of her that her mother’s behaviors had nothing to do with her… transformation occurred. Of course, up until that point she knew that consciously, but that well-embedded program in her subconscious mind controlled her. 

Now her subconscious mind is aligned with her conscious mind and she is 100% clear on her personal value. In fact, she’s riding high on life! 

Reach out if you want to know how this work can also help you. I offer you a complimentary 30-minute phone consultation so that you can experience the process and the magic for yourself.

Jayne Goldman, MBA, C.Ht., Founder and Principal of Best Life Hypnotherapy in Los Angeles, is a Certified Hypnotherapist and NLP Master NLP Practitioner and Coach. Phone: 310-422-7828.