An interesting phenomenon occurs when a person releases their own baggage through hypnotherapy and NLP Coaching sessions… THEIR RELATIONSHIPS TRANSFORM! 

Relationships and communication seem easier and more meaningful once your own “stuff” is out of the way. You no longer take things personally and your increased confidence allows you to give your partner more personal space. Resentments melt away, you are happier with yourself and your increased positive energy makes you more fun to be around! The benefits list goes on and on… 

I see clients who are often at the breaking point in their relationship with a significant other. They are desperate for change and many are convinced that the problem is their partner’s. After working together, the role that my client plays in the communication becomes evident to them. 

The truth is… It really does take ONLY ONE person to change a conversation and ultimately… an entire relationship!

With the anger, sadness, fear, hurt and guilt of the past in the past… along with disempowering beliefs… my client is filled with confidence and sees the world through a new lens. They see the other person’s intended meaning in a conversation, instead of creating a story based on their own negative thoughts and emotions stemming from childhood and early-life events. They start to take things at face value.

For example, I once worked with a woman who was very upset with her husband because he had commented that he thought an actress in a movie they were watching was very pretty. She immediately got angry with him because she took that to mean that he thought the actress was more attractive than her! Then, the story in her head escalated to “maybe he would rather be married to someone else!” They got into a huge argument over her jealousy and possessiveness. 

How she inferred from his simple remark that he wanted to leave her for another woman was, of course… ridiculous to him! But… let’s examine how human beings typically communicate…

You see… There was a whole lot of negative conversion in her own head, but she never realized she was making it all up based on her previous life events until our work together.

After releasing her own negative emotions of the past that had NOTHING to do with her husband, she began to listen to her husband differently. She learned to take what he said at face value, without interjecting her own meaning. In other words, she stopped taking everything personally. This was a MAJOR MILESTONE in their marriage.

This is what happens within a few hours in my NLP Coaching and Hypnotherapy sessions. Reach out if you want to learn how you can apply this to your own life.  

Jayne Goldman, MBA, C.Ht., Founder and Principal of Best Life Hypnotherapy in Los Angeles, is a Certified Hypnotherapist and NLP Master NLP Practitioner and Coach.