As a hypnotherapist and NLP coach, one of the most common concerns I hear from clients is about their children. Whether they’re 11 years old, navigating the challenges of middle school, or 30 and figuring out life’s next steps, parents of all ages feel deeply invested in their children’s happiness and success. And let’s be honest, being a parent is a lifelong journey—you never stop caring about your child’s well-being.
The saying, “You can only be as happy as your least happy child,” captures this perfectly. As a parent and grandparent myself, I know firsthand how true it is. When your child is struggling, it’s almost impossible to not feel the ripple effects in your own life. It doesn’t matter how old they are; the worry doesn’t disappear as they grow older—it just evolves.
Parents come to me with a variety of concerns. Some are worried about their young child’s anxiety, school performance, or difficulty making friends. Others are navigating the teenage years, where self-esteem, academic pressure, and social media can take a toll on mental health. And then there are the parents of adults, who may be concerned about their grown children’s career choices, relationships, or general sense of direction.
It’s not unusual for parents to feel powerless when their children are struggling. Many tell me they’ve tried everything but still feel stuck. They want to help but don’t know where to start. That’s where hypnotherapy and NLP coaching can make a significant difference.
Hypnotherapy and NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) are powerful tools for both parents and children. Hypnotherapy works by accessing the subconscious mind to address deep-rooted beliefs and patterns that may be contributing to stress, anxiety, or low self-esteem. It’s a gentle, non-invasive way to create lasting change. For children, hypnotherapy can help build confidence, reduce anxiety, and improve focus. For teens and young adults, it can address procrastination, self-doubt, and even unhealthy habits.
NLP coaching focuses on communication and mindset. It’s particularly effective in helping parents understand their children’s perspectives and improve how they connect with them. Often, by changing the way you approach a situation, you can create a more supportive and open environment for your child.
For example, if your child is struggling with motivation or direction, NLP techniques can help uncover the underlying reasons and create a clear path forward. For parents, learning these tools can reduce feelings of helplessness and empower you to better support your child’s journey.
If you’re feeling concerned about your child, I encourage you to reach out. I offer a 30-minute complimentary phone consultation where we can discuss your unique situation. During this time, I’ll listen to your concerns, share insights, and provide actionable steps to help ease your mind and guide your next steps.
Sometimes, simply knowing you’re not alone can make a world of difference. Regardless of the age of your child, their happiness and success matter deeply to you—and to me. Together, we can create a plan to address the challenges and move toward solutions that benefit the entire family.
Parenting is one of the most rewarding yet challenging roles in life. It’s normal to feel overwhelmed or unsure at times. Hypnotherapy and NLP coaching can offer the clarity, tools, and peace of mind you need to support your child’s growth and happiness. You don’t have to have all the answers, and you don’t have to do it alone.
Let’s work together to bring balance, understanding, and positive change into your family’s life. If you’re ready to take that first step, I’m here to help.
Jayne Goldman, MBA, C.Ht., is the Founder and Principal of Best Life Hypnotherapy in Los Angeles. She is a Certified Hypnotherapist, Master NLP Coach, and Master Time Line Therapy® Practitioner, specializing in helping young people ages 11+ to find happiness and achieve their greatest potential.
