NEVER underestimate the value of asking good questions!

Asking the right questions at any given time can help you to shift from a negative state… to a positive state of mind… instantaneously. And this happens to be one of the best NLP Coaching techniques available.

When a crisis occurs… Lots of people will go with a very human response, which is, “Why me, Lord? Why does this stuff always happen to me?” 

Just think about the answers those questions beg! Some answers like, “I’m a loser. I’m plagued with bad luck!” can surely come to mind at that moment!

If that kind of thinking goes on for too long, people end up in a downward spiral, and it can lead to some potentially serious and very unresourceful states like sadness, depression, and anxiety. At best, nothing productive is accomplished to improve the situation. 

I’m not saying that there’s anything wrong with the “Why me, Lord?” question. In fact, even the most evolved people are likely to have that knee-jerk reaction. After all, we ARE human.

BUT, empowered people don’t live in that place for very long. In fact, with some good NLP and Hypnotherapy sessions, you can learn to immediately switch the question to, “What CAN I do to make the best of this situation?”

Now, that’s a question that can get you some great answers and… ultimately, some solutions to resolve your crisis. That IS a productive and powerful question to ask. 

Do you want to live with empowerment and confidence? All you need to do is learn to ask the right questions! Reach out if you want to know more about how NLP and Hypnotherapy work and can easily train you to do this automatically.  

Jayne Goldman, MBA, C.Ht., Founder and Principal of Best Life Hypnotherapy in Los Angeles, is a Certified Hypnotherapist and NLP Master NLP Practitioner and Coach.